Don’t Touch

“Uh, uh, uh,” I hear the warning in three short grunts. I turn quickly to find out what my not-quite-two-year-old grandson is doing. 

My quickness is due first to fear for his safety and secondly for the life of whatever he might be holding in those chubby little fingers. But touching what a baby should not is what babies do. It’s born into their genes. That little finger wants to touch a big no-no even though the result will be a lot of doo-doo.

His intent gaze breaks from the white vase on my coffee table to his Mommy’s  stern eyes. 

“No-no,” she says. “No touchy.”

For a moment his finger hovers in mid-air, half the distance to the goal line where a very desirable breakable thing sits. One that Grandma should know better than put where she did.  

He is weighing options.

Then as if that offending hand had acted on its own, a decision is made. He quickly shoves it behind him and makes a 180 away from the breakable vase. Little feet blur a path to the other side of the room, where he bumps into his grandpa and swings up into his arms. The no-no is forgotten in the laughter and embrace of someone who loves him. 

I guarantee however, without the big people around to keep him from picking up that vase, one touch would have led to the next step. My grandson would have held my vase between those two chubby hands. Not only would break the rules and break the vase apply, but my grandson could have gotten hurt had he dropped it. 

Leviticus, read without context has some what appears to me as seriously odd passages. There is a lot of blood, more information than I prefer to know about perversions, infections and a thousand rules.  

It is filled with “Don’t touches.” 

Touching was a big thing in Old Testament law and culture. One touch against God’s commands and it defiled the entire person. 

Interwoven throughout the “don’t touch” admonitions are the words, “I am the Lord.” 

  • “I am the Lord your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt. And you shall observe all my statutes and all my rules, and do them: I am the Lord.” Lev. 19:36-37 (ESV)
  • Consecrate yourselves, therefore, and be holy, for I am the Lord your God.” Lev. 20:7 (ESV)
  • “I am the Lord who sanctifies you, who brought you out of the land of Egypt to be your God: I am the Lord.” Lev. 22:32-33 (ESV)

The impact of those words, “I am the Lord,” interspersed between laws reminded the Israelite people of not only His right to make the rules, but of His purity, untainted by sin’s stain. 

God detests the barrier of sin brought on by Adam and Eve’s first disobedience to the “No touchy.” God demonstrated His love by making  a way to bridge the gulf, so a holy God and a guilty child can touch in relationship. 

“I am the Lord,” reminded them of a God who cared for them and did the right thing for them, but was not compromised by any caress of evil. God’s rules, which we like little children sometimes chafe at, display God’s infinite grace. 

I see myself in my grandson. I am aware of my tendency to reach a tentative finger toward some action or attitude I should never touch. He wants to spare me the intense grasp of something that would distance us. Interlaced within stuff hard to understand, God demonstrates mercy impossible to comprehend.

 I get that sometimes obedience owes no explanation. We learn it because it is right. 

The more I know of my New Testament Jesus the greater is my embrace of the deep mercy underlying God’s Old Testament rules. They point to Jesus. Like a child confronted with a “no touchy,” God’s words lay the foundation for wisdom to do a 180 from sin and run right into the open arms of His love.

10 Replies

  1. RJ Thesman Reply

    Love “God demonstrates mercy impossible to comprehend.”

    • Sylvia Schroeder Reply

      RJ. Thanks so much! I always appreciate your comments! I am struck again during this particular time in history, how very merciful God is, and how blind I can be!!

  2. J.D. Wininger Reply

    I often wondered if God made so many “No Touchy” things that tempt us so we might learn self-discipline. Am sure glad the Holy Spirit is always with me and has those “Uh Uh Uhs” at the ready. 🙂 Loved this post ma’am. Thank you!

    • Sylvia Schroeder Reply

      Thank you J.D. I am with you, so very glad for the Holy Spirit’s help and discernment!

  3. Kristen Parnell Reply

    I loved this post and the “don’t touch” analogy. When God says don’t touch, it’s for our good too! Thank you for sharing.

    • Sylvia Schroeder Reply

      Thanks Kristen. I’m so glad you liked it. Grateful for that voice of the Holy Spirit that deters me from touching when I shouldn’t! Thanks for commenting!

  4. Katherine Pasour Reply

    I wish I didn’t still have so many of those “don’t touchy” moments, but so thankful that God gives me the ability to recognize them now rather than stumbling along that dark path. Thank you for this always relevant message. Great example from your grandson!

  5. Katy Kauffman Reply

    This is a beautiful post. Thank you, Sylvia!

    • Sylvia Schroeder Reply

      Thank you Katy! I appreciate you reading it and I’m so glad you liked it.

  6. andrew brucato Reply

    thanks, Silvia great illustration. glade Grace has covered the no-touch!